When a man and a woman come together and take good care of each other. They are ready to live for each other in any situation. This bond is based on the trust and affection shown by each of them. Faith is again a complex concept, right ? We have faith and love for our parents, brothers and sisters, but is it the same between husband and wife or todays deserving couples ? Have you ever considered the reasons behind this ? Because we have spent at least 18 years with our parents, brothers and sisters. Couples dont spend as much time with each other as they do with their family. Does this mean that it takes many years for a spouse to build faith ? Couples who usually have a good time especially love marriages have seen constant conflicts between them. We have also seen successful couples who have not had a good time together before marriage. Does this mean that spending time with each other is a solution ? In my experience, more important than time is communication and constant care. There is a need to understand and respect each others feelings. Patience and calmness help us win this battle.

      Therefore, when it comes to marriage ; that is a blend or mixture of dedication , sacrifice , compromise , adjustments and many more. Is that not true ?

      Therefore, when newly wedded couple start living together, we see a lot of differences. But based on mutual trust and understanding, this gap is bridged over a period of time. Yet we have seen some differences when it comes to interracial marriages. What does this mean ? Not only sound education but his alertness and dedication too are most required. Therefore, couples need to reconcile their differences and resolve cultural differences. Most interracial marriages are love marriages. So, couples are well aware of these habits and try to learn the language before the language. So, until marriage, everything is as you say for both boy and girl. After marriage, expectations change and conflict begins.

      These days we have come across many marriages in different castes mainly love marriages. Now when we refer to different caste, along with that follows different culture, language, ethnic values, food and many more to ponder on. Adjustments is the term or concept that is applicable to both a boy and a girl. So as couple we agree to adapt and accept all such differences, tastes and flavors of different culture. But does that happen in reality ? It does not mean we do not have successful Intercaste marriages, we do have many couples who enjoy both the culture and food. I personally have seen both the sides of such marriages, a grand success and a problematic situation. Back to my earlier point a crystal clear communication helps to manage any situation or circumstances. Being girl, she has to do all the adjustments in her life do not hold true anymore. It’s a proper equality between both. Even our law of the land also speaks of the same equality. Also, other point that we all need to understand is the intention. Good intention will always give good results and vice versa for bad intentions.

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